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10 Tips for Living With Personality Disorders

Modified date: September 10, 2024

Personality Disorders are challenging conditions to live with. They impair lives in many ways.

But despite the challenges, there are things that can be done to try and improve quality of life while living with such a disorder.

Living with a personality disorder is challenging, but recovery is possible!

1. Respect yourself!

First of all, don’t let the name “personality disorder” put you off. This is arguably an unfair name, and makes it sound like there is something almost warped about you.

But this isn’t the case. There is nothing wrong with being a bit different. It is just that sometimes these differences manifest themselves in ways that lead you to need help.

2. Try relaxation techniques

Across all mental health conditions, one of the things which helps many people is engaging in relaxation techniques.

These techniques work best when you are going through a stressful period, are highly anxious, or need to remain grounded. Deep breathing and mindfulness are two examples of relaxation techniques which many find effective.

3. Eat and drink healthily

Eating healthily, avoiding alcohol (where possible) and trying to exercise regularly are all useful ways of improving your mental health – even just for short-term relief.

Many people find that exercising gives them a “buzz”. It often results in the release of the feel-good hormones endorphins.

4. Find out more about your condition

One thing that helps a lot of people is learning about their condition in more detail. Educating yourself can be interesting, and helpful too!

For example, on our website, there is a wealth of information about Personality Disorders, along with the wider field of mental health.

5. Try talking therapy

Talking therapy tends to be the most effective way of treating personality disorders. There are a range of types of talking therapy to choose from.

We recommend engaging in talking therapy. Therapy can help you to discuss your problems with a trained professional, and try to come up with positive solutions to your problems.

6. Be open with your loved ones

It can be very difficult to open up to your loved ones about your personality disorder. They may understand some of your actions as a result.

By being open with them, hopefully they will become more accepting. Having support from loved ones can be very useful.

7. Be patient

Your personality is shaped over a long-term period, and will take a long time to change. This can be difficult to deal with.

But try to remain patient! Problems won’t be fixed immediately, but in the long-term, it will hopefully be worthwhile!

8. Avoid recreational drugs

It is important that you avoid using recreational drugs when you have a personality disorder. Such substances can worsen your symptoms.

Instead – as discussed earlier – try to eat and drink in a healthy way, and engage in activities that will improve your mood, like hobbies.

9. Nail down an exact diagnosis

Sometimes, people are diagnosed with just a personality disorder – which isn’t too helpful! Instead, try to nail down the exact type of personality disorder you have.

This will help treatment to become tailored to your exact condition. Therefore, your treatment will be suited to you.

10. Keep fighting!

It is not easy to cope with a personality disorder. But over time, things can – and hopefully will – get better!

Keep fighting and believing in yourself. You can get to a better place, but keep up the hard work and fighting spirit!